It’s common to feel overwhelmed and not know where to start when it comes to masturbation. Sometimes it’s not clear what goes where or which setting is best. It’s OK if things feel a little awkward. Masturbating isn’t always instinctual. You have to learn what your body likes and that will require time, patience and willingness to explore. If you purchased a new toy recently and are having a difficult time starting your solo play, we’ve got some tips for you.